Monday, September 10, 2018

Crossroads Church Cranberry

Yesterday we worshiped at Crossroads Church Cranberry, 8533 Peters Road, Cranberry Township, PA 16066, 412.494.9999, www.crossroadsumc.org, Mike Arnold, Campus Pastor.


Scripture – NIV

Genesis 50:15-20 –

When Joseph’s brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, “What if Joseph holds a grudge against us and pays us back for all the wrongs we did to him?” So they sent word to Joseph, saying, “Your father left these instructions before he died: ‘This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.’ Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father.” When their message came to him, Joseph wept.

His brothers then came and threw themselves down before him. “We are your slaves,” they said.

But Joseph said to them, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God? You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”

Hebrews 12:15 –

See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.

1 John 1:9 –

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.

Psalm 103:12 –

…as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

Romans 8:28 –

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.


Bob’s thoughts:

Having been away most of the week, we looked forward to worshiping here and seeing some of our family. I didn’t realize God was using our visit for much more.

Early in the service, a young woman on the worship team sang an amazing rendition of “It Is Well With My Soul”, a song that brings bittersweet memories as it was one of the songs in church the day after our son was killed. It was performed so flawlessly that I may be able to get past the memory. Yesterday everything seemed right about the praise team…the right instruments and voices. Maybe it always is, but this day, it was right to me.

This past week I had the opportunity to introduce my wife to some of my family she had not met. At a reunion of Marine Combat Helicopter Squadrons from Vietnam she met, or at least got to see, a few thousand of my brothers. I came to realize while we visited the 30 or so survivors of my squadron, there was an aroma of Christ there which I did not expect. When I read a devotional in “Our Daily Bread” based on 2 Corinthians 2:14-17, it was clear to me that this was what I was sensing.

When the pastor was talking about being released from revenge, there was a second moment of clarity. It was part of my experience of releasing my heart from vengeful thoughts. Long before Christ claimed me, I learned to block these prideful inclinations toward revenge, and those who wronged me were dealt with way more severely than I would ever have thought of. When people treated me wrong, I would pray for them because the punishment was so severe.

I realized that there were people at my reunion who caused me pain/suffering that I had not forgiven. I pray they may never know that they caused me pain, and thanks be to God that He brought me release.

A thought from the message I appreciated: “No one can foil God’s purpose for you.”


Jan’s thoughts:

Yesterday was Grandparents’ Day, so we took the opportunity to worship with our grandchildren who live in the area.

I always enjoy worshipping here: the people are friendly, the music is well done, and the coffee is delicious. Also, I enjoy the hugs and watching the members interact warmly with each other.

Yesterday morning we watched two young brothers in the row in front of us as they stood singing with their arms around each other. I felt privileged to witness such a sweet moment.

The message was part four of the series Then God… and is called Used it for Good. Past messages in this series were said to have focused on times when God worked in unexpected ways, so now I’d like to hear the rest of the series.

This entry focused on God’s use of Joseph and his hardships, and how Joseph was able to avoid allowing bitterness to gain a foothold in his heart. The pastor observed that everyone gets hurt, it’s only a matter of time, but holding on to that hurt causes much harm to us and those around us. The only cure for bitterness is forgiveness, defined as releasing the right to get even. He stated that the power to forgive comes from “50/20 vision” – Genesis 50:20, Joseph’s affirmation to his brothers of God’s sovereignty and grace: “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”

The pastor identified the specific path followed by Joseph in healing from hurt: Joseph faced his hurt, he released his right to revenge, and then he blessed his offenders.

He concluded by openly sharing a personal story about his own effort to forgive someone with whom he had a falling-out. This required a great deal of vulnerability on his part, and I am grateful to have this example to follow in the future. Indeed, God works in mysterious ways.


Our prayer for this church:
Lord, we pray for Your continued comfort and guidance for Your church. Lead them to where they need to be next. Amen.

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